Why do couples break up?

Everyone thinks that they are the best of their kind, that they are the most successful, that they are the best in every way, but in fact things are not exactly like that.

Especially when the perimeter includes a relationship with another person, a relationship with a woman, then everything seems to be rearranged in seconds and the things the man thinks turn out to be wrong, inaccurate and incorrect.

There are some cases in which men have no right to argue with a woman, and the most important thing is why the arguments actually arise.

The most common reason why a relationship ends is because of very small household disputes, but they break through the walls of a long-standing relationship with their frequency.

As wise men have said, “water does not break through stone by force, but by persistence”, so it is with relationships between the two sexes.

Many of the relationships end because of petty scandals caused by reasons that are extremely unimportant.

It is a common practice for couples to fight over nonsense like “who said what”, “why is someone coming home 5 minutes late” or simply because when people are under stress and to let off steam they have a habit of exchanging harsh and offensive words and expressions that they later regret.

Another common reason for the end of a long-term relationship is infidelity, and the longer the relationship, the smaller the reason itself.

A relationship is far more likely to end just because of a “occasion for infidelity” such as casually glancing at another woman or the normal men’s groping when walking down the street, rather than the act itself of infidelity.

It’s only when people spend many years together that they start to get bored and used to each other.

Many of the couples who have been together for a long time share that they no longer take each other as a couple, but as a given, they are kind of used to themselves, the relationship is exhausted and the thrill She has been gone for a long time.

Then comes the moment of infidelity, or more precisely, the occasion for infidelity, like just a careless glance during the afternoon walk.

One of the equally common reasons why a relationship ends is that men don’t know how to communicate with women and women don’t know how to share their problems.

It’s a regular practice for him to ask her how she’s feeling, albeit with reluctance brought on by the scandal a while ago, and for her to simply say “Great, I’m great” when it’s obvious she’s neither great nor it’s great.

Then men start to get nervous, and women’s passivity turns into aggression.

As a result, individuals exchange sharp remarks that they later regret, but in most cases it is already too late.

But although this article is mainly about the shortcomings of men, it is good for ladies to pay attention to what is written, because in most cases it is men who ignore their ego first to apologize or simply ask “How are you”, or to say “I’m going out with friends, do you mind?”.

Then the ladies tend to say everything is fine when it clearly isn’t or just say the old catchphrase – “Do what you want”.

Of course, this annoys the men, and the scandal leads to another scandal, intertwining in an endless circle, from which the only logical way out is the end of the relationship.

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But still, think before you speak and consider whether it’s worth it – sometimes a second of silence can save a long-term marriage or relationship.